we love to hate being single but should't

When the queen of pop, Britney Spears, said "my loneliness is killing me", I felt that. I am 21 almost 22 years old and I have been single my entire life. I've met a few boys here and there that I have been interested in, but nothing came of it. Lucky me, I suffer from a lot of trauma, and low self esteem which has helped me develop one of my most prevalent skills, self sabotage lol so I am sorry to any boy who has ever had to deal with me, I promise I am actually a somewhat cool. Anyway, over the years I have decided that no matter how many pennies I find heads up, my luck with love will not change. I feel like I am doomed to be single forever. So, instead of loathing in my self pity and searching couple goals on tumblr, I decided to think of the things that I enjoy about being on my own. So if your love life consists of spending Friday night with your favorite Netflix show, and the hottest men you know, Ben and Jerry, then this is the post for you. I can see how beautiful being in love is, but there is also something beautiful about being alone. We cannot truly enjoy the company of others until we enjoy our own. So, I have come up with a few things to love about being single. 1. 5. Finding Yourself When we are single it is so much easier to figure out the things that we actually love and enjoy in life. We don't love something just because our significant other does and we don't love something just because it was something we did with them. Those things can change Maybe now is a good time to check out that organization you are really interested in volunteering for, or you want to try a new coffee shop, or maybe start a blog lol you can do all of these things and because you're alone you can see if you really truly like them because you like them, and you don't like them just bc the person The best outlook to have on life is to find a silver lining in every situation. Most things have at least one thing that we can take away from them, we just have to look for it.